California Dreamin’

We’re home from a wonderful vacation we spent with our friends in California.  It was more than a vacation – it was spiritual.  The ordination Mass we attended for Fr. Christopher Felix and three other seminarians was, in a word, heavenly.  I can’t think of anything more joyful than an ordination – young men who responded magnanimously to the call of God to offer their lives in His service.  There is no more glorious calling this side of heaven.

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Fr. Chris

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Our next Mass was Fr. Chris’ first Mass, which qualified us for an indulgence.  That also was a heavenly affair, after spending the afternoon visiting with friends.  The next day I had the miraculous opportunity to attend the monthly Opus Dei reflection with friends.  I was so happy to see Blythe, whose blog you can read about here.  That was the night that everything the Holy Spirit had already been making more and more clear to me came rushing all at once to a head.  Why is it that I can go for months to Mass and hear good homilies, yet when I visited California, it seemed every homily, talk, and line of thought was directed intimately to awaken me to my spiritual state?  It was good to be exposed to such riches all at once.

Thank you Linda, beloved sister, for your hospitality, and it was beautiful seeing all the family!  It was a joy to visit with Kim and Bill, Cathe and Mando (thanks for your hospitality), Joe and Cece, Laura and Joe, Kathy and Severo, Elizabeth and Victor, Jewell and Steve, in other words: ALL YALL!  It did my heart good to be back in the presence of my holy friends.  Our friendship is marked by our desire to become saints, and I have sorely missed it.  Attending the Opus Dei reflection was amazing.  I have no such resource here.  Loved visiting with Ken Hensley, whose work you can check out here.

FRANKENSTEIN WARNING

scarfaceListen my children and you will learn

Not to stay in the sun and burn

On your head a bonnet wear

And do not let your arms be bare

And thus you will not look like me

Whose Frankenstein scar we all can see.

The Wind …. it is A-Blowin’

So happy to spend time on New Year’s Day with good friend Jennifer and her family.

    Spring has arrived!  And with it, the wind.  The wind has been blowing off and on since February, at times fiercely.  I have continued to assimilate my new life in West Texas.  I am continually amazed at the variety of birds.  On a given day I see or hear such a great number as to marvel anew at creation, beginning, of course, with the ever-present doves whose calls never cease from dawn to dusk.  Till now our weather (minus the wind!) has rivaled any beautiful mild day in Southern California, but soon the heat of summer will be upon us.  We’ve been enjoying cool starlit evenings out front, sitting near our chiminea fires in our patio furniture that was recently repainted by Hot Rod.  The winter wheat planted in front of our house has been mowed in neat rows and lays ripening in the sun until such time as it will be baled.  Meanwhile the doves and quail have found generous bounty in the yellowing rows.  The hummingbirds have returned, arriving just before the beginning of April.

    The pecan trees were the last to bud out, so late in fact that I was beginning to be a bit impatient in my anticipation.  By now the orchards are filled with the fallen catkins, the feathery pollen-producing strings that cause little newborn pecans.  On the other hand, hunting for tree squirrels will be far more difficult now that they will be in cover of the dark leaves.  Squirrels: the scourge of the orchard.  When I grew up here in the 60’s through 80’s, there were no squirrels around these parts.  It is my understanding that one squirrel can decimate $1000 of pecan income per year.  They don’t eat that many nuts, but they do eat their fill, after which they continue to harvest far more nuts than they could ever eat, after which they damage trees and limbs by stripping the bark and killing branches.

    I am happy to have a bit of time and some inclination to write.  Things have begun to slow just a bit.  Beginning in January, we literally worked for the government all month.  You know that the average person “works” for the government till May?  Meaning that is about the amount of income Big Brother takes from you in taxes.  But in business, apart from that, we do most of our actual work for the government: accounting, calculating and processing W-2’s for the employees, filing state and federal reports for unemployment taxes and income taxes, and preparing the books for the accountant to file income tax reports.  These are the longest, most arduous days in the office!

    February brought the most delightful visit from Mando and Cathe!  I was in heaven with my sister there to listen to me for hours on end!  In return she watched me milk, helped me make scones and sandwiches for a shower, which she attended, and dubiously allowed me to drive her up to “the hills” in the jeep with Mando and The Millionaire, where Hot Rod joined us on the motorbike and we enjoyed God’s expansive vistas with wine and cheese.  We ended the beautiful affair on the levee, right where the border fence ends, and prayed the Rosary together.  Wait!  They still had a little time for target practice before going home!  Thank you sooooo much, Mando and Cathe, for the beauty of your love.

    This spring had brought with it some frightening medical news regarding The Millionaire.  However, Jesus had personally worked out all the details beforehand, including lining us up with some of the best doctors in the country through no fault of our own.  Measures were taken swiftly and positively, and miraculously.  The Millionaire is, considering the circumstances, in great health, and a cancer survivor!  We have no idea why God is so good to us!  How can we return Him thanks for all the good He has done for us?
    Meanwhile, cousin Chelsea generously and selflessly took over my homeschooling program and WOW!  Is she ever talented!  Organized!  Motivated!  Virtuous!  Beautiful!  Aaaah – I’m in love with you, Chelsea. . . .  Jesus hand-delivered you to us, or us to you. 
    On to other news:

Hot Rod is at this moment in California soaking up time with old friends before summer school.  She’ll be staying in Midland, TX over the summer, taking a class and working.  Here in El Paso, jobs are more scarce and her schedule was such that it was complicated to find employment.  Midland, however, being in the middle of an oil boom, has a “reverse” economic problem.  It sometimes boils down to one qualification to obtain a job: a place to live.  Businesses there are almost desperate for workers, so we hope she’ll prosper over the summer as she completes a math course and enjoys the fine company of her darling cousin, Nevada, and Warren and Sara!  She’s been accepted into two Universities in the fall, so she’s got a big decision ahead, and I can’t help mention how proud we are of her finishing her freshman year with a 4.0 grade average.
A fun and mystical ride through deserts and pastures.


The Elf continues to flourish in archery.  She won the last two competitions she entered, and we are now shopping for a new bow that will more closely reflect her growing ability.  She continues to shoot shotgun as well.  And milk the cow.  And be sweet and accommodating and imaginative!  She is so steady and faithful that we have hired her to milk regularly.  (Lady Moo is quite happy with the arrangement.)  The Elf’s plans for the summer: she will be attending training camp for The Survivors in Silverado, CA, two archery competitions in June, 4-H Congress in July, the 4-H State Shoot right after Congress, and plans for mountain camping and fishing late in July.

The Elf!


Dead Eye, living up to his name, has done very well in competitions, having finished first in team in the last two shoots (first, second, and third lately!), and high point youth recently.  The last competition he was just one point away from high-point youth.  And it was on his birthday!  I can’t believe he’s fourteen already!  He received a deer rifle which he is VERY fond of.  He’s quite a bit taller than me now, and he’s courteous and gentlemanly.  Also a very good scholar.  His plans for the summer also include Survivors camp, possibly Congress, if there are enough seats, and the state shoot and camping.

    A little about Survivors: IMHO the best, most effective, and inspiring organization for young people to get involved in the pro-life movement.  As The Elf repeats: Are you pro-life?  Yes?  Then what are you DOING about it?  Go to this website and learn more.  I think every pro-life teenager in the U.S. should attend the training camps.  Besides the effectiveness of the training, the price for what you get cannot be beat!

A little about 4-H Congress: 4-H is a leadership program.  It comes to us through the university system as an extension program, and it is nation-wide.  It is funded, but the kids also raise money.  They can learn about anything from parliamentary procedure, to hunting, culinary arts, fashion design, livestock, you name it.  They also compete.  And in the process, they learn to lead.  If I’m not mistaken, each state has a 4-H Congress in which members from each county act as state legislators in session.  They write bills, debate them in committee, present them on the floor, and pass or decline them.  Only in Texas, Congress actually is held at the state capital.  The Elf is busy thinking of bills to write.  (I suggested they vote to repeal unnecessary laws, as there are already too many on the books!)  Since I will be near Austin attending a pecan conference at the time, I hope to stop in and sit in the gallery and watch my children legislate!
    Today there will be a team-roping competition in our back yard.  Last time there were 14 teams competing.  We look forward to seeing all the cowboys and horses here!  Dead Eye plans to go to the range and practice with his new rifle.  Cousin Michael spent hours helping him sight it in and adjust it perfectly – a very scientific process from what I understand.  How blessed we are to have such a talent in the family as Michael!

Happiness . . . .
    Last but not least: we’ll be arriving in Southern CA the 26th or 27th.  San Diego first, to visit sister Linda, and then to Sylmar/San Fernando around the 29th.  Mando, Cathe, Joe, Cece, Bill, Kim, are you ready for us?  KRISTI, I’M ON MY WAY TO SEE YOU!!!

Another mysterious jeep ride with Uncle of the Corn.
(He don’t give a dorn.)

Early spring

Goodbye Peaches, Hello Tri-Tip

December 19, Thursday.  I received a text from The Millionaire to the effect that our new family member, Lady Moo, was in labor with our newer family member.  Arriving to the pen late due to extenuating circumstances, I saw that Lady Moo was already somewhat advanced in labor.  However, it ironically happened that this was the third Thursday of the month – the day of the horse auction.  I had plans to take Peaches to a nearby arena to run around and take off the “excess energy” before she was hauled off to auction.  I decided I would make it back in time to see the calf being born, as this was Lady Moo’s first born and labor was likely to go long.  The Elf was on hand to oversee everything.  (She has trained and cared for Lady Moo from day one, since day one was the day of my accident and I have been disabled since then.  Lady Moo, in return, loves The Elf devotedly.)

I was wrong.  Before I arrived at the destination, I received a call.  It was a boy, and I had missed it.  Had it been a girl, she would have had a sweet name such as Buttercup, or Marigold.  She might have had a future of providing creamy milk.  Boys, on the other hand, receive names such as Tri-Tip, Brisket, or T-Bone.  Provided he grows healthy and stout, he will be headed to what some cheekily refer to as freezer camp in a year or two.  The Elf had a unique experience, catching Tri-Tip in her arms as he entered the world, and presenting him to his proud mama.

About two hours into the world.

Meanwhile Peaches went bye-bye later the same day, and will hopefully fulfill her greatest potential – whatever that may be (on a rodeo bucking string perhaps?).  Daddy recalled to mind that many years ago he had purchased a few 2 year old horses from a ranch as a project to break to ride.  As he worked, he demonstrated to me how to tie them and sack them out, get them used to the saddle and then break them to ride.  The biggest horse was a stout, powerful buckskin.  I think we called him Dun.  He kicked my Daddy’s you-know-what.  That horse just wouldn’t be broke, under any circumstances.  After too many incidents, including broken bones, Daddy offered him to the nearby stockman as a work horse.

He found out a year or two later, after good-natured inquiry, that Dun had gone on to rodeo notoriety, having become one of the most famous bucking horses ever after being sold to a rodeo string.  Don’t give up, Peaches, you’ll find your niche.

Have I prepared for Jesus sufficiently this Advent?  No.  I never have.  As usual I begin with grand intentions, and end with humbling failure.  It’s probably the best place for me.  In fact, it is probably not a failure for me to enter into Christmas having failed at what I believe is holiness.  As far as the heavens are from the earth, are my thoughts from God’s thoughts, and most likely my plans from God’s plans.  Therefore, it is fitting that I should fail according to my plans.  I shall then lay them aside wait on the Lord, and quietly contemplate His birth.  If He wants me to know what to do, He’ll show me.

I wish all of you the best of Christmas, great joy and great peace, and may you find all happiness in the love of God.  I want to thank all my beautiful friends and family for your friendship and continued love for us from a distance.  You are cherished!

 Blooming succulents in the sun room.  A Christmas surprise.